May Madness

Finally, I can sit and breath after what has been a whirlwind month.  During the month of May I have been home for maybe a week and a half.  The reason for the minimal home time, we paid a visit to Dad, who is working in the Chicago area, plus a visit to the grandparents to congratulate sis on her university graduation and finally a fabulous get-away with the husband for a very romantic 15th anniversary celebration at Serenity Lake Bed and Breakfast.  More details and hopefully pictures will be coming, but now it is time to stop moving.



In All Seriousness, We Really are Schooling

A strange phenomenon occurs when a parent decides to homeschool.  It is called the, “Oh you don’t work, so you must be available to do….”  For some reason, people seem to think that because a parent doesn’t work outside the home, that person must have time to babysit, run errands, volunteer and whatever else the so called busy working person doesn’t have time to perform.  It could be safe to imagine that most think that homeschooling parents sleep in every morning, wear pajamas all day, allow the kids to run around or watch TV and perhaps get in a couple of hours of lessons.  Well it is possible that a portion of that image is correct such as the sleeping in and pajama wearing.  It is true that if a person doesn’t have to go anywhere, there isn’t any reason to dress up.  Not true for all homeschoolers, but certainly true for this particular mom.  The other half truth is sleeping in every day.  It is something that occurs occasionally, but not as often as most people would like to believe.  After all, any self respecting homeschooler knows that the amount of hours over sleeping, equals the amount of time spent in the late afternoon and early evening finishing up school work. 

The rest of the assumption about homeschoolers mentioned above can be for the most part dismissed.  Perhaps, there are a minority of parents who disgracefully claim to homeschool, while using the television as the main source of education, but the majority of parents take their children’s education very seriously.  Which brings me back to the initial belief that parents who homeschool have all the time in the world to cater to other people’s needs and wants.  It amazes me when I am asked if I can run an errand, baby-sit or do some other chore that usually has no redeeming quality to the eduction of my children.  But what amazes me more is the shocked reaction when I declare that school comes first and all other activities come second.  After all, isn’t education the most important factor in our children’s lives?  This concept should be true whether a family decides to send their children to school or keep them home.   No parent should be made to feel guilty because of saying “No” when it benefits the education of children.  Instead, these parents should be looked upon as shining stars in our increasingly downward spiraling sense of soundness.

Unfortunately our “Me” culture can not seem to grasp the understanding that there are parents who homeschool for reasons other than for themselves.  Most people who school at home do so for the benefit of the children, which is usually the same reason people go into teaching at traditional institutions.  It is a shame that many do not have the capacity to understand that when a parent declares quality education over play time, it is for the future benefit of the child and not for the short term laziness of the parent.  Most stay at home educating parents would rather go, play and be with other adults.  However, those of us who have decided to make our life’s work our children, understand that when the kids leave as successfully educated adults we can finally run all those little errands and perhaps even have a little time to play.